Category Archives: friends and family

sunday #6

joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india

My baby brother and his gal came down to Chicago from Milwaukee on Saturday to celebrate his 27th birthday. The rain thwarted our grilling plans, so we munched on stovetop burgers and oven-baked hot and jerk wings. Cupcakes came from Alliance Bakery down the street, and Joey received a Capitalist Pig–my favorite gift to give these days– from me and an heirloom copy of Bartlett’s Familiar Quotations from Papo that our parents used to source their wedding vows from almost thirty years ago. We went around in a circle with the book, each of us closing our eyes and opening to a random page. Joey’s was fitting for the only son and the birthday boy: “Enter upon your inheritance, accept your responsibilities.”

When he was little, Joey would sit at our kitchen table and open the dictionary to random words, copying them into a notebook with their definitions. He would then taunt me around the house: “Spell dysfunctional.” “Use amalgam in a sentence.” “What does termagant mean?” Papo gave him this book with the hopes that he will continue to do the same, only with quotes instead of words this time.

It wasn’t just one occasion that we were celebrating: that evening our father flew to Frankfurt where he stayed one night, and then went on to India (he is probably on a plane as I type this) where he will be a guest of the State Department for three weeks, traveling around the country and giving lectures and talks on aquaponics and urban farming. The protective daughter in me is a terrified but proud, ecstatic but wary, wanting constant contact but recognizing that as he let me move about the world at 17, I have to do the same for him at 65.

joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india
joey's 27th & dad's sendoff to india

NOTE: My Sunday post, in which I (try to) post photos that sum up the week for me, is on a Monday this week and today is Memorial Day. I have all of our service members in my thoughts and prayers today but special recognition goes out to our LGBT members, past and present, of the armed forces. President Obama may have repealed Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, but those changes have not been fully implemented and countless men and women continue to serve in silence. I hope that Memorial Day 2012 brings something different.

Here’s to a safe, happy and fun-filled day of remembrance for all of us! Happy Memorial Day.

in honor of dads: the original hipsters

New website I’m in love with alert!

Go read Dads: The Original Hipsters now. Yesterday. Preferably with photos of your dads on hand. Here are a few of ours. Sorry for not coming up with pithy captions like the originator of the site did.




happy birthday mama

You said the world was magic, I was wide eyed and laughing…

Happy 56th birthday Mommy!!!

In honor of what would be my mama’s 56th birthday, I captioned some of my favorite photos of her with some of her favorite songs.

Note: I tried to post this on April 16th, her official birthday, but the blubbering and yelling and raising my fists to the heavens came out so I thought it would be better to wait a few days for a clear head…

Please remember, this is a woman whose license plates read WHOOMP for the song Whoomp There It Is. Needless to say, she had some eclectic music tastes.

I offer thanks to those before me…. that’s all I’ve got to say…. cause maybe you’ve squandered big bucks in your lifetime, but now I have to pay…but then again it feels like some sort of inspiration, to let the next life off the hook… she’ll say look what I had to overcome from my last life? I think I’ll write the book….

“Galileo,” Indigo Girls
I don’t want no one to squeeze me – they might take away my life

“Give Me One Reason,” Tracy Chapman

Note: Please check out the EAR CUFF in this photo.  I can’t stop laughing and yes, I completely remember trying to steal it.  I think I’ll bring those back in the ’11.

And I never lost one minute of sleep; worrying about the way things might have been…

“Proud Mary,” TINA!

You see I cried just a little too long… now it’s time for me to move on…

“Hopeless,” Dionne Farris

happy birthday to the mister

The Mister turned thirty-something last week. Aziza snuck a cake I handed off to her earlier in the day into Beauty Bar, along with my humble bag of presents, and a grand time was had by all.

tamarindo!

March in Chicago. While most of the country seems to be enjoying some spring-like weather, the City of Big Shoulders is still getting flurries every few days. Ugh. To avoid all of that, we headed down to Costa Rica for some real-life Vitamin D last week. It was our second visit in two years and I started writing this whole long post debating the merits of the east coast versus the west coast and Puerto Viejo versus Tamarindo and then it was getting really long and I was getting impatient because I wanted to share some photos with you because I love them so much and my impatience prodded me to shelve the epic Costa Rican coast showdown and just post some damn photos. Whew, that was a long sentence.

We touched down in Liberia, Costa Rica around two in the afternoon. At this point, we had been awake for more than thirty hours if you don’t count the three hour nap we took before departing our apartment for O’Hare at 4am. Fairly exhausted but with that certain travel adrenaline you feel in a new place, we passed through customs and met our taxi driver for the ride to Tamarindo, a small town about an hour from the airport. After a quick stop at the grocery store, he dropped us at Casa Cook, home sweet home for the next few days.

That hammock? That beach? Oh, yeah, those were in our front yard. Casa Cook is a tiny, boutique-like hotel with four rooms: two stand-alone cabinas, a studio apartment and a casita off the pool. We dropped our bags in one of the stand-alone cabinas, grabbed a few cold beers and beach towels and went right into the water. 4pm and it was still over ninety-degrees. My kind of town, ya know?

Let me tell you this: no one was on the beach. For the whole trip. No one.

OK, that’s exaggerating. When you’re used to the over-crowded beaches of St. Thomas, a dozen people on a humongous beach feels like no one. I was shocked– this is high season, after all. On each of our beach visits we were at least 100 yards away from anyone else. I like people and all but this kind of private relaxation was amazing.

I think we went to bed around eight or so that first night. Woke up to monkeys in our trees and took a nice walk down the beach for Bloody Marys and vodka tonics.

We took the street way back.  Lots of little restaurants and shops, bars and hostels.

The majority of our trip was spent on the beach with Walter Mosely for me, iPod for he, taking long walks and grilling.

There was lots to see no matter where we were; even on a simple walk back from the grocery. The swimsuit choices, por ejemplo.

The one excursion we took involved crocodiles, hand feeding monkeys (or rather, having them take bananas out of our closed fists), petting a calf and even letting it gnaw on our fingers (totally weird), and lots of practicing Spanish.


Is that not the cutest little animal ever? Come on. You know it is.

Overall: A++.  This was truly one of the best vacations we have ever taken. And guess what? I want to go back in June!

See all of our pics on Flickr.

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you better vote (please)!

If you have a few minutes, please take a gander at your favorite architect/designer’s submission for the Who’s Next green home competition. It’s not just good, it’s really good.

Vote here.

And then let’s all pretend that they’ll raffle off the house.  And that I win.

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links: not just under construction anymore

When I started blogging in late 2009, I didn’t really know what a “design” blog was. I knew I liked writing and that I wanted to share some thrifty finds, my transformation of our vintage, kinda-in-horrible-shape apartment, and the cool apartments of my friends. I didn’t know that there was something called a “reader” that I could plop all the blogs I happened upon into and keep track of them. I also didn’t realize that I would spend countless hours a week reading, clicking and starring their posts. But I do. And I finally added some of my daily reads to the links page. Go check it out– and tell me what blogs you read on a daily basis since you’ll probably notice my list is a wee bit short. I’ll be continually updating it as I add more to the good old reader.

I also added links to some of my family and friend’s ventures. They’re all amazing, so click around and check them out, too.

LINKS

Hope you’re staying warm this Tuesday night!

chicago nights: staying in the house

dinner at kate & evan's

dinner at kate & evan's

One of the best things about Chicago winters is the dinner gatherings. Sure, we have tons of BBQs and house parties to throw and attend in the spring, summer and fall but there’s something about bundling up and trooping over to a friend’s house in the cold, rushing to get inside after parking and walking into a warm and cozy apartment. On Friday, our graceful co-habiters were the hosts, along with their two French bulldogs , Ziggy and Dozer.

dinner at kate & evan's

dinner at kate & evan's

They started us off with Chef Earl’s giardiniera hummus– insanely delicious, if you’re like me and love spiciness.

dinner at kate & evan's

dinner at kate & evan's

See all those magnets on the fridge? Kate made them out of bottle caps, clear resin and cut-out images from magazines. Here’s a tutorial on how to make your own. Best part? I got to take a bunch home for my fridge! You might also recognize the pretty bowl on the shelf…

dinner at kate & evan's

How much do you love this cake tin? The duo picked it up at a flea market on a drive to Kentucky over the summer.

dinner at kate & evan's

We had mussels.

dinner at kate & evan's

And homemade chicken fingers.

dinner at kate & evan's

And fancy frites.

dinner at kate & evan's

dinner at kate & evan's

There was also wine and beer.

dinner at kate & evan's

Oh, and homemade pumpkin cupcakes with butter pecan gelato from Black Dog Gelato on Damen.

dinner at kate & evan's

There was an interloper at the table during dessert.

dinner at kate & evan's

His brother joined him.

dinner at kate & evan's

They finished off the sweet stuff.

dinner at kate & evan's

dinner at kate & evan's

Ziggy and Dozer were very well-behaved after they got their sugar fix.

dinner at kate & evan's

Then Kate pulled out the knitting and it was time to go. Stuffed and sleepy, we made our way home in the cold and burrowed under the covers. Fridays kick ass. Six more days ’til the next one.